“Everyone wants to be great, until it’s time to do what greatness requires.” – Joshua Metcalf
According to Chris Brady, there is a process and a path to greatness. In this article, Brady uncovers the secrets to skillful living and how to achieve a great life.
What Greatness Requires – by Chris Brady
If you’re going to do what greatness requires, you’re going to have to become great in order to EARN what greatness delivers. For example: if you are going to do great financially, you probably have to be great as a man first. True greatness requires greatness.
The problem is that most people’s lives are a mess. There is something called skillful living and in Life, we teach about skillful living through our products. Think about it, how many people do you see that you can honestly say are living skillfully?
Skillful living requires consistent, productive, daily habits, and greatness requires skillful living. To break it down even further, daily habits require two components:
- The right inputs
By applying the right inputs over time, you will be able to manufacture an awesome life!
It all seems so obvious, yet so few people actually do it. Why? Because most people underestimate the power of positive habits multiplied by time, and conversely, most people also underestimate the destructive power of negative habits over time.
- Read– What do you read on a daily basis that’s designed to make you better?
- There’s positive stuff that you should be reading on a consistent daily basis to the point where you have to fall in love with it. Then there’s stuff you should stop reading that doesn’t help you at all.
- Tune down the negative and tone up the positive.
- Listen – What do you listen to on a daily basis?
- Associate – Who do you hang around with?
- It may take you hanging out with better crowds in order to put you in a better position in your life.
- Self-talk – what do you tell yourself?
- You should have an affirmation statement that you can run through your mind all the time.
- What do you watch?
- On TV, social media, or You Tube- It may not be negative, but it may not be positive either.
- Just because technology can make something easy to watch, doesn’t mean you should watch it.
- Do you actively block stuff out and refuse to let it come through your eyes?
- What do you visualize?
- What kind of future do you run in front of your mind?
- What is the vision that you see- the picture in your mind’s eye of what your life will be like one day?
- What kind of person do you want to become?
Once you’ve changed and identified your inputs, multiply them by time and you will achieve a great life. Remember, time is a currency. You should spend it carefully and intentionally.
“When you begin to take your life seriously, you will also start taking time seriously. Those who don’t take time seriously aren’t very serious about their lives.”
Skillful living depends on the wise deployment of time, and time can also be helpful in choosing the right inputs. Stop reading for a moment and grab a piece of paper and a pen and answer this question in 7 categories of your life:
20 years from now, what will you wish you had done today?
In your health…
In your family…
In your soul/spirit…
In your finances…
Create a picture of the best you. The things 20 years from now you will wish you had done today will represent the best you. You can’t stop bad choices and habits; you can only replace them with productive choices and habits. So, replace destructive stuff with productive stuff.
“You will always be thankful for the gifts your present self sends forward through time to your future self. And you will always be sick with regret when you don’t.”
If you want the life that greatness brings, you have to be willing to do the things that greatness requires. Greatness requires skillful living; skillful living requires consistently, productive, daily habits; and consistently, productive, daily habits require the right inputs, consistently applied over time.
The way to do that is to have a longer view: Look backwards from 20 years at you today and picture that 20 year (plus) you cheering you on. What would that guy say if he could come back right now? Would he come back and smack you? Or come back and thank you?
Lastly, it ultimately comes down to hunger. Most of the habits are not hard to do; they’re just easier not to do. Greatness requires hunger; and if you’ve got hunger, there’s no limit to what you can accomplish.
(Posted by Kristen Seidl, on behalf of Chris Brady)
Finding the hungry, that’s the “treasure hunt” you always told me about! Trouble is, some people haven’t been fed in so long, they don’t even know they’re hungry! The world is starved for what we have, like the most elegant midnight buffet on a grand cruise ship, we can more than satisfy them, we can bless them beyond their expectations! I love your Context Matters talk, as it gives us direction on how to reawaken someone’s hunger…. give them a snack, get their stomach growling!
(did someone say cruise?) 😉
Phenomenal post – made me think of Matthew McConaughey’s acceptance speech a few years back where he talks about chasing his hero – who is himself in ten years. We should always chase down the best version of ourselves in ten or twenty years (best habits compounded over time). If we live skillfully every day, we’ll be amazed at who we can become.
Thanks, motivational and inspiring